Here is a long post, so I'll get to the bullets:
- People worry about online privacy
- Social media profiling could cost you your job for a nice week end bender
- Social media profiling could cost you your job for things you'd thing completely normal
- The law should grant online privacy the same status as IRL privacy
- The creation of a unique online ID could help
Few days after facebook changed its privacy policy, I've seen various reactions around the web and outside. When some people don't really care, some other are concerned enough to write
"Is Social Media Privacy an Oxymoron?"I've read it twice. And if I agree with some of what's written, I must say that the tone is much too optimistic to my taste.
I never had a tattoo, facial piercing or crazy haircut knowing that these would be a no-no for any future job seeking.
Nonetheless I like playing with my appearance. Every now and then I make silly faces, I dress up or I take cheesy poses, Rarely, very very rarely I drink myself silly (doesn't take much effort, I can't drink). Also, I don't chose my friends for their social status or their political inclinations, and I don't feel ashamed of being seen with them. I have many female friends, just friends, and sometimes we hug, and gay friends, and sometimes we hug too.
Two keywords when it comes to social media: fun and common sense. Have plenty of both.
That's where the problem is. Where does common sense and fun begin and when do they end to leave only downright shameful moments?
See this scenario:
On Friday night, I've had a terrible week and my mood belly flopping on a historical low, a friend of mine invites me to a quiet cafe to have a drink. Then, well, you know how it goes, and we end up in a much less reputable cafe, I've had my 3 beers (enough to make me really drunk) and I'm pole dancing with a girl I don't know and her gay buddy.
It's my absolute right.
Flashy flashy, a picture is taken and tagged on Facebook.
I sleep all the week end, not only because of the party but also because of my 70 work ours of last week, and on Monday I'm the freshest to go to work.
Mister Big Boss asks me in his office, he's seen my pics, he doesn't like drunk bent pole dancing.I slept, I didn't un-tag my pic, Ooops.
What's wrong in this case is the fact that I have the right to do whatever I want outside working hours, and that my private life belongs to me only. As long as I'm not breaking the law, sorry Boss, but you have no rights. Or you shouldn't have.
This scenario is already disturbing. But it could be worse.
See this one:
On a workday, I'll spend my evening with my best female friend, her gay friend, in a gay bar. The evening will be spent drinking juice, making silly jokes, and I'll tenderly hug my female friend and bear hug my gay friend as a good bye. Clickety clickety, photos, Facebook. I don't see why I should remove them.
The day after, job interview.
Tough luck, the HR person is secretly homophobic, and no, the HR person doesn't like my silly faces, and anyway I'm hugging that person who's not my wife, I am probably a heathen fornicator. No job for me.
That's where it becomes truly dangerous.
Laws have been created to make the office a place where people should work without having to be worried by their sexual/political/entertainment-al preferences. It's not always the case, but I don't think that, until now, any HR would ask you "Was this person you hugged your brother or are you gay? Was this woman you hugged your wife? Will you be so exuberant in you cubicle?". Mainly because it's probably not common practice yet, but also because they wouldn't have any pretext to ask.
In the first example, I haven't even uploaded the pics myself, a friend with lousy privacy settings did. In the second example, I uploaded pics seemingly harmless, and in both case, damn, it's my life there, I'm allowed, by law, to do these kind of things.
Fun and Common Sense are two concepts too often missing in some people, and lest we are careful we might see the rise of a dangerous kind of internet bigotry.
What to do then?
Simply forbid people you don't want nosing in your stuff from accessing your online personal data, the same way they can't enter your room and look for your stash of hidden pr0n.
A unique, legal and standardized online identity, granting legally you the same privacy right as in real life should take care of that.
Let's root for it, wait, and see.
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